Consider this modest proposal: A campuswide essay
writing contest on the theme, “How would you facilitate a
campus forum on recent developments regarding the ‘racial
language incident’ of last semester?”
Were I asked to conduct a campus forum on this topic, I would employ the following
perspective in addressing the many issues raised by the incident. While I am
not “bidding” on that role, nonetheless I want to seize this as a “teachable
moment” for the kind of perspective I bring to such race matters. Incidentally,
the term “no-fault reconciliation” that provides the title for this
article was coined by the celebrated African American scholar, Eric Lincoln (1925–2000),
in his last book, Coming Through the Fire: Surviving Race and Place in America.
I employ a systems analysis of conflict resolution in such situations. You may
be familiar with this approach in terms of family systems theory or social constructivist
theories of human interaction. From a family systems perspective, the presenting
client in a conflicted situation provides only the occasion—not the “cause”—for
addressing problems or issues that are generated collectively by all participants
in the system.
On this view, a conflict is not simply (or even significantly) about the principals
involved, but rather refers to the total system in which the conflict occurs.
This also can be likened to a field theory approach in physics. In field theories,
it is not simply the particles or units of interaction that are key, but rather
the field and the energies within which those particles or units interact or
operate.
Thus I would encourage us not to—and would do everything in my power to
ensure that we not—target each other as specific persons involved in the
conflict, or as causes of the conflict itself. Rather we would regard the interaction
of the principal persons involved as key indicators of the nature of the system
itself.
Contrary to conventional perspectives, we would appreciate the emerging humanity
of specific persons, irrespective of their behavior or attitudes, as occasions
for observing how the system is disclosing itself via the conflict. This counter-conventional,
conflict-savvy and more strategic approach would enable us to manage better—or
even transform—the system. Therefore I am all the more appreciative that
the principals involved in this case have been cooperating with this disclosure
process by rendering apologies on the one hand and constructive criticisms on
the other.
Such good fortune is not always available and is never to be taken for granted.
In too many conflicted situations, apologies are not proffered at all and the
testimonies of aggrieved parties do not even pretend to be constructive. Too
often, indeed, the principals will neither speak to each other nor cooperate
in face-to-face conversations on the issues.
We are indeed fortunate to experience a different climate in this situation,
however stressful it remains. As a campus community we need to congratulate ourselves
for this achievement. Such affirmations and acknowledgments are all the more
necessary when the conflict itself renders us tone deaf to the many ways in which
we are all doing the best we can. The pernicious power of conflict too easily
takes hostage our more normative and generous perceptions of each other. The
real enemy here is runaway, reciprocal and escalating scapegoating of each other
as “the cause of the problem.” Congratulations to my colleagues,
co-workers and students alike for our more generous impulses and efforts.
In this connection I am mindful that all our societies are cultures of addiction
to blame, where blaming and counterblaming are automatic responses even when
this vicious cycle is demonstrated to be socially dysfunctional. I challenge
us all to research, explore and, if necessary, invent counteractive practices
that deconstruct blame by “reinventing fault.” Through this view,
fault is an attribute of the field within which conflicts occur rather than an
intrinsic characteristic of subjects interacting within that field. Certainly
perpetrators can be contaminated by fault (it is socially contagious), but not
in such a way that one becomes blameworthy for the fundamental fact of one’s
existence as a human being.
In that regard I share with you the “blamelessness” feature of the “Unlearning
Racism Workshops” (www.unlearningracism.org) developed in the 1970s and
1980s by my mentor, Marxist scholar Erica Sherover-Marcuse (1938–88). Those
groundbreaking workshops insisted on the presumption of blamelessness. No one
was permitted to blame another, and even self-blame was challenged as a suspect
form of internalized socialization.
Indeed, Sherover-Marcuse’s “unlearning” model boldly envisioned
humanity’s total emergence from the “internalized oppression” and “internalized
domination” patterns that we all learn through the social construction
of reality. Her workshops enabled both target persons (i.e., victim and survivor
groups) and nontarget persons (perpetrator and ally groups) to find the necessary
safety to explore their issues of oppression without the inhibiting fear of being
attacked or shamed by oneself or
another.
Thirty years later, that perspective of blamelessness remains new across the
spectrum of social change theories. Regressively, conventional wisdom still maintains
that only by means of overt accusation and moral condemnation will perpetrators
acknowledge and change their behavior, despite sufficient evidence that many
(if not most) do not respond accordingly.
The continual failure of reforming people by means of blame and accusation means
that a different strategy is called for. The “no-fault” strategy
proposed here directs our criticisms away from persons just long enough (indefinitely?)
so that they can observe something more key about the system—more key than
their being assigned fault. If it’s change we really want for other human
beings, and not simply assigning them blame, then the effective strategy will
be to show how we are duped and co-opted by a system that uses (and abuses) us
contrary to our human freedom. Only after we have shown such persons how their
humanity is being manipulated and distorted in the service of injustice and mistreatment—and
they persist in such injustice—only then can we claim that they have made
a moral choice for injustice. Until then, in effect, we blame them for our own
failure to show how their attitudes and behavior are not freely chosen but rather
complicit in a system that compels them unwittingly.
Accordingly, Sherover-Marcuse assumed that perpetrators never voluntarily acquired
the social conditioning and misinformation that led to their oppressive behavior
and attitudes. She took seriously the fact that oppressive forms of misinformation,
attitudes and behaviors are socially sanctioned and imposed upon non-target people
during their youth, when they are most vulnerable and impressionable. Moreover,
this approach rendered the phenomena more accessible for treatment—more
accessible, that is, than attributing the phenomena of oppression to individual
moral problems or defects of character.
Thus the approach proposed here is not a covert bid for moral legitimation of
oppressive behaviors. Rather it is a strategy for psychosocial effectiveness
as a subjective or intersubjective precondition for moral transformation and
social justice.
Through this connection, the approach to ethics and justice espoused
here is a restorative justice approach.
Restorative justice seeks to reinstate civil relations following an injury or
insult to such relations, not only between victims and their perpetrators but
throughout the entire community. Since fractured relations also constitute an
injury to social comity, a more holistic justice seeks to reconcile conflicted
parties as a means to redress the communal level of injury as well. The real
challenge here is to deconstruct the victim-perpetrator paradigm itself. It is
that paradigm that maintains our collective captivity to polarization and the
politics of blaming and counterblaming each other. I challenge us to become more
cooperative and proactive in such deconstructive practices that already are available.
For example we might consider, as only one such resource, reinstating the Faculty
Diversity Council established in 2001 by former Provost Rebecca Chopp. This was
an initiative among the faculty themselves to set standards and provide accountability
for pro-diversity practices and policies across the University. Additional resources
include the “Prejudice Reduction” and “Conflict Resolution” workshops
available through our campus chapter of the National Coalition Building Institute
(www.ncbi.org). NCBI is a state-of-the-art diversity organization I helped organize
on campus in the early 1990s. It treats diversity issues as a framework for helping
groups build alliances and practice conflict resolution on an ongoing basis,
not just for crisis management but as a way of life.
Colleagues and co-workers, students and friends: Only by means of our emerging
solidarity across all our divisions (of ethnicity and religion, gender and class,
and orientation and ability) will any of us be able to escape that age-old drama
of endlessly blaming each other. Without such exploratory practices of no-fault
reconciliation, the system itself—the system that hold us all enthralled—will
go unchallenged in rendering us all its unwitting dupes.
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