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Roommates

Living with a roommate is one of the defining experiences in a student’s college career. You will learn shared responsibility, conflict resolution, compromise, flexibility, and in many cases, you will be exposed to a diverse populace. This is a once in a lifetime chance to live in an academic environment and take advantage of all the opportunities on-campus living provides. Unlikely friends blossom everyday in our residence halls, and this is one of the ways that Emory’s community spirit is reinforced. Here are a few tips you may find helpful in getting along with your roommate:

Know your values/lifestyle.

Be honest in sharing your values and lifestyle on your personal description form and while talking to possible roommates.

Communicate at appropriate times when something is bothering you (holding it in creates resentment). Communication right away avoids yelling at your roommate because you have waited too long to address your concerns.

Learn that living with others is learning how to compromise. Each roommate cannot have his/her way on every issue. Identify the big issues as well as those on which you can compromise. Learning how to be flexible is the key.

If you are having difficulty discussing issues, ask the Residence Life & Housing staff (SA, RA or RHD) for assistance. Our staff is trained to assist in these circumstances.