Campus News
October 15, 2010
Greeting, eating and other etiquette
Photo by Kay Hinton
No one wants to offend a visiting dignitary, so University Events has issued a protocol "do's and don'ts" for those who may come in contact with His Holiness the XIV Dalai Lama during his visit to campus Oct. 17-19.
• You may say "Tashi Delek. Welcome," or just "Welcome."
• Making direct eye contact is fine. So is shaking hands, but with two hands, not one.
• When addressing the Dalai Lama, say "Your Holiness," or when speaking about him, say "His Holiness." After that, you may say you or he.
• Pass or receive an item using both hands.
• When sitting, if you cross your legs, avoid pointing your feet toward the Dalai Lama.
• During meals, wait until the Dalai Lama begins eating or drinking before you do, unless he specifically requests people to start.
• When the Dalai Lama enters or leaves a room, you should stand.
• Allow the Dalai Lama to sit first, and then take your seat.
• When leaving with the Dalai Lama staying, take a few steps back still facing him before turning to leave, rather than turning your back on him directly.
• Be yourself and be natural. The Dalai Lama relates to everyone as they are.
